This week, we’ve been exploring creative ways to maintain relationships even when dealing with a serious illness. My friend Cameron shared his tips yesterday {LINK OUT}, and today our Friend in the Fight Kiera has kindly offered to share her story and tips!
The key to much of Kiera’s success is not limiting communication, but being smart about how she communicates. On difficult days, she may only text or send silly animal videos, but even those little bits of contact keep relationships fresh. In addition to energy expenditure, many of us also have to contend with cognitive issues. She uses Marco Polo (or just leaving voicemails) when she can talk but not necessarily follow a conversation. FaceTime is great for face-to-face connection without using spoons to leave your house. Writing letters, postcards, sending art or care packages are great ways to show you care and update people, without the energy cost of conversation.